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Feel Tough! #TufGrl


After many of years of feeling docile and meek, I woke up one day feeling FIERCE! I mean Beyonce as Sasha Fierce… FIERCE! I felt it was the day for me to tackle the World. Anyone or anything that challenged me was quickly met with a toughness unlike any other. It almost reminded me of Me, Myself & Irene, a movie starring Jim Carrey as a Rhode Island state trooper named Charlie who, after years of continuously suppressing his rage and feelings, suffers a psychotic breakdown which results in a second personality, Hank.

I won’t go as far to say I was psychotic; although I did experience a little unedited, road rage jargon without the children in the car. One thing I will say, I was ready for whatever. I felt so confident and empowered; almost invincible.

Since that day, I have embraced a tough girl presence while balancing the sensitive soul I still am. I recommend you embrace your Fierce and become a tough girl too, order your ‘Tuf Grl’ shirt today at www.divasindefense.com

You Can’t Do What You Want, It’s My Body

Let me tell you a story of a bi-sexual woman who exudes sexuality; and two men: one accused of possession of child pornography and molestation of under aged girls; and the other sexual exploitation and coercion of young women. Seems like the brewing of a report on eyewitness news.

Well, this is what happened when you get Lady Gaga, R. Kelly and Terry Richardson to do an Advertisement for Rape “collaborative project” called, “Do What You Want With My Body.”

According to the reports, Gaga asked Kelly, “Will I ever be able to walk again?” and he replied, “Yes, if you let me do whatever I want with your body. I’m putting you under, and when you wake up, you’re going to be pregnant.” The video clip of the pulled music video posted by TMZ (see video clip here) depicts a young unconscious woman as a playground for sexual exploitation.

Unfortunately, date rape drugs such as rohypnol, GHB and Ketamine makes this video depiction a real-life situation for too many young ladies. As an Atlanta resident, I am embarrassed that we are ranked No. 1 for Sex Trafficking and at the bottom of the spectrum for high school dropouts.

Here are a few ways to protect yourself from being a victim:

– Keep your drinks with you at all times.

– Don’t accept drinks unless they’re delivered by bar staff.

– Pay attention to the way you feel.

– Use methods of detecting the presence of date rape drugs, like DrinkSavvy, a company which designed a cup to detect date rape drugs.