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Celebrity bodyguard Chris Britto empowers women to defend and conquer

You can tell from his vice-like handshake that Christopher Britto is probably a man you don’t want to mess with — and that goes for his mission to empower women of all ages to learn the art of self-defense and find their inner diva.

A Chicago native transplanted to Long Beach, in just three years Britto and his Atlanta-based brother Cole D. Parker, have turned their women’s self-protection business, Divas in Defense, into a national brand with 10 DID franchises in four states.

If his face is at all familiar, Britto, the 28-year-old company president and CEO, has 12 years of experience in the upper echelons of celebrity protection guarding the likes of John Travolta, Justin Timberlake, Christina Aguilera and Omarion.

The training program offers certified instruction in self-defense, non-lethal weapons training, and firearm safety training.

Divas also have a program called Girls Can Fight Too, for 7 to 17 year olds where they teach about personal safety, dating violence, social media etiquette and communication.

“It’s all about saving lives, not winning a fight,” said Britto, on the company’s philosophy. “I have expertise in personal protection and Cole wrestled and boxed in college. We wanted to put together a scenario based curriculum that was straight to the point; if he did this, you did that.”

He added: “The first line of defense is about awareness and the one rule is to get away. In instances like sexual assault and rape, most attacks happen with people that they know.

“So we train clients about awareness; remembering where you parked, not talking on your cell phone when your walking down the street or if you’re jogging in the morning, don’t have your iPod in your ear.”

Britto’s other key tip is that even if you are attacked to put up a fight.

“The chances of you walking away are a lot higher,” he continued. “A perpetrator will go for someone they feel they can overpower, and if you fight back that makes them think, ‘I thought this was gonna be easy, maybe I should get out of here.’”

Unbeknownst to Britto at the time, the seeds to Divas was sown back when he and Parker were siblings being raised by a their single mother, who herself was a victim of molestation and domestic violence.

When Britto’s daughter was born three years ago he wanted to be on the road less and home more, and attending church one weekend the female pastor asked him if he could come and teach a class on self-defense.

After thinking about it for a moment, he tapped his brother, who is a well-known marketing guru in Atlanta, for a name for the class.

“He’s 10 years older than me, and at that point he told me that our mother was a survivor of domestic violence. I was like ‘what are you talking about?’ And he said yes, that really happened. He said ‘I think you should call it Divas in Defense.’ I said that’s catchy, and he replied that if you start it in Los Angeles then I’ll start it in Georgia and we can work on a curriculum together.”

So Britto went from pondering the proposal on a Monday to researching stun gun equipment on a Wednesday, then a celebrity connection put the concept on the map before they had even put together their first class.

“I play in a celebrity football league with Speedy, the presenter on Jamie Foxx’s radio show. He interviewed me and we immediately got phone calls about where people could attend classes,” he recalled.

“Then I flew Cole into L.A. for a Grammy Gifting Suite party and our classes were the hottest attraction in the room. Right then we knew we were onto something and we weren’t going to be doing anything else.”

However, as they expand Britto is also keen to give back.

For instance, next month DID will be taking part in Denim Day, where women don Jeans to protest about the Italian judge who freed a rape suspect saying the victim was partly to blame because she was wearing tight jeans.ris

Surviving The Scars

I had never considered myself a survivor but if I look back I have survived my whole life. I was molested by my step dad from the time I was 7yrs old till I told someone when I was 11, it was such a different time back then, I never received counseling and never spoke to anyone about it not even my mom it was not talked about in our house ever. I grew up very distrustful of men, till this day I tend to feel like I’m going to freak out if someone I don’t know simply touches my arm but I deal with it. When I was young I became a bit rebellious and my mom let my biological father come around and they would both say things like, that I was a liar and what I had said probably never happened because I was nothing but a piece of scum.

My teenage years were some of the loneliest years of my life. I turned to drugs to numb me of all of it, my drug was meth. My mom made it clear I was not welcome in her home I was 14yrs old so I was on the street. I would sleep where ever I could find a place, sometimes in an abandoned apartment or under some stairs at building to keep from getting wet from the rain. As I walked the streets I would see girls my age going to prom, going to school and I so wanted that for myself, I wanted to be normal I had felt abnormal and out of place almost my whole life, by then I was 16yrs old, I had been on the street for 2yrs. I had a friend who was much older than me and she took me home and helped me get clean which to me was amazing because she was a using as well.

The detox was horrendous I felt I was going to die! But I didn’t and I was determined to have a normal life it’s all I wanted. I went home and enrolled myself back in school and started taking ROP, I started beauty school. I had absolutely no support my moms boyfriend didn’t like my brother and I and let us know every chance he got but I didn’t care. I would an hour to school everyday as they both drove past me.

It was during this time a friend asked if she could fix me up. After a few months of fighting her off I finally agreed and went on a date w him. He was so nice and very different from anyone I had ever dated but then again I hadn’t dated much. Life at home was the same…awful and one day I had a huge fight w my mom and I moved out. I went to a friends house and my new beau came to see me. He said I could stay w him if I wanted to. I was flattered and very happy, I had never had anyone actually want me around so I went. I was very happy I was finally given a chance at a normal life so I did normal things, I cooked and cleaned, did laundry. Being 17 I didn’t see there was nothing normal about a man who didn’t want me to work or go to school. Soon his temper was starting to show, it was a bad temper and the first time he struck me I didn’t know what to do. I didn’t have anyone to call or anywhere to go but he apologized and to me that was big, no one had ever apologized for hurting me ever, to me it showed he loved me and I believed him when he said he would never do it again. It went on for many years even through my pregnancy w my son who is now 15yrs old.

At the time he was 1yr old when I had enough and decided to leave, it would be 1 of many times…he would threaten to kill himself sometimes and other times he would get in 1 last beating and would hunt me down and stalk me after to get me to come back, as stupid as it sounds I would go back. I know now it was because I saw his actions after as a sign of his love for me, something I had been searching for my whole life if only I could just fix his problem?. I finally realized I couldn’t fix him if he didn’t want to be fixed and I didn’t want to be beaten in front of my child because he would grow up thinking this was ok, that it was normal. I knew it wasn’t normal and all that normality I had searched for my whole life was up to me to attain, not for myself but for my child, I didn’t care if I had normality for myself but I didn’t want my child to miss out, my choices determined his future. I had survived being molested and I survived drug addiction and now I had to choose to survive domestic violence and I did.

I am married w 2 kids, my husband is a wonderful man and my kids have the normal life I so longed for as a young girl, I may not of been able to attain that for myself at that age but I have a normal life now as a grown woman. It’s never to late to move on from where you are to where your supposed to be and no one is supposed to be in a horrible place of hurt and pain. You are valuable to someone whether it’s your children, your parents, your brothers or sisters, those are the people who love you the way you should love yourself and if you have no one there people like myself who are willing to share our story in the hopes you will pick yourself up and keep from being a forgotten statistic 😉

Divas In Defense Receives 2011 Best of Atlanta Award

U.S. Commerce Association’s Award Plaque Honors the Achievement

NEW YORK, NY, October 21, 2011 — Divas In Defense has been selected for the 2011 Best of Atlanta Award in the Martial Arts Training category by the U.S. Commerce Association (USCA).

The USCA “Best of Local Business” Award Program recognizes outstanding local businesses throughout the country. Each year, the USCA identifies companies that they believe have achieved exceptional marketing success in their local community and business category. These are local companies that enhance the positive image of small business through service to their customers and community.

Various sources of information were gathered and analyzed to choose the winners in each category. The 2011 USCA Award Program focuses on quality, not quantity. Winners are determined based on the information gathered both internally by the USCA and data provided by third parties.

About U.S. Commerce Association (USCA)

U.S. Commerce Association (USCA) is a New York City based organization funded by local businesses operating in towns, large and small, across America. The purpose of USCA is to promote local business through public relations, marketing and advertising.

The USCA was established to recognize the best of local businesses in their community. Our organization works exclusively with local business owners, trade groups, professional associations, chambers of commerce and other business advertising and marketing groups. Our mission is to be an advocate for small and medium size businesses and business entrepreneurs across America.

SOURCE: U.S. Commerce Association

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